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Commited1 · 11-13-2009, 10:35 PM

Thanks for the replies! So you both concur it is granny just making her miserable and that exacerbates everything else?

We have discussed it 3 times (before she stopped talking to me) and one out of the three times she agreed with me and started making plans in her head about granny moving in with the brother, out from us. The other two times she has adamantly and angrily refused.

I think I stopped giving so much input in the decision making process when I got tired of fighting. I guess fighting being a part of things, can't give up on a part and expect the whole to stay healthy for too long.

Still though, she won't talk to me and I am crushed. I have to at least get her to talk in order to convey the message that granny has to go.

11-13-2009, 10:35 PM	#5 (permalink)
Commited1 Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 98	Re: My god, help..... Thanks for the replies! So you both concur it is granny just making her miserable and that exacerbates everything else? We have discussed it 3 times (before she stopped talking to me) and one out of the three times she agreed with me and started making plans in her head about granny moving in with the brother, out from us. The other two times she has adamantly and angrily refused. I think I stopped giving so much input in the decision making process when I got tired of fighting. I guess fighting being a part of things, can't give up on a part and expect the whole to stay healthy for too long. Still though, she won't talk to me and I am crushed. I have to at least get her to talk in order to convey the message that granny has to go.