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Commited1 · 11-14-2009, 02:38 AM

Reading this entire thread, I feel for you and hope things are ok today. I am in a 'similar' situation with my wife, who simply will not talk or interact with me (been this way the past 2 weeks). My situation, like yours, was overnight. She didn't say she was going to leave but she went from emotionally attached and affectionate to dead cold and unresponsive in the space of a single day.

Your wife seems to have some pretty intense swings back and forth. Personally, I wouldn't worry too much about her cheating on you. It really just doesn't sound like she is.

Honestly, it really sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Something I ask myself sometimes is if it really matters what anyone wants. Set goal, do what it takes to achieve goal. Wants need to adapt to that rather than the other way around, in my opinion.

Maybe I am totally misreading everything, but like my situation, your wife seems to be crying out for some boundaries to be set for HER. Rational, fair, consistent boundaries.

11-14-2009, 02:38 AM	#11 (permalink)
Commited1 Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 98	Re: Heartbroken x2 Reading this entire thread, I feel for you and hope things are ok today. I am in a 'similar' situation with my wife, who simply will not talk or interact with me (been this way the past 2 weeks). My situation, like yours, was overnight. She didn't say she was going to leave but she went from emotionally attached and affectionate to dead cold and unresponsive in the space of a single day. Your wife seems to have some pretty intense swings back and forth. Personally, I wouldn't worry too much about her cheating on you. It really just doesn't sound like she is. Honestly, it really sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Something I ask myself sometimes is if it really matters what anyone wants. Set goal, do what it takes to achieve goal. Wants need to adapt to that rather than the other way around, in my opinion. Maybe I am totally misreading everything, but like my situation, your wife seems to be crying out for some boundaries to be set for HER. Rational, fair, consistent boundaries.