Re: Nice guys do finish last.
Brokenfrag
I’m so sorry to hear of your pain but I am relieved you are working your way out of that relationship. Yes good guys can finish first. You are married to a user. A manipulator. My hope is that she will realize that she has made a huge mistake. Lost a man who loved her in spite of her faults. Was there for her in her times of need. She and the new man deserve each other and my guess is it won’t last a year. Also there is no conflict between being a good guy and having confidence at the same time. She is not worthy of your efforts or love. Give yourself time to heal and then look for a new love. One that appreciates your honest and grounded qualities. Believe me there are plenty of singles out there desperately looking for that kind of relationship. Men and women. Marriage is a good thing. Unfortunately what we see here daily are people in trouble looking for answers. That’s what drew me here. And let’s face it, some are in real train wrecks at home. But there are many here also to serve as an example to how successful a marriage can be. Take your time, gain your confidence and recognize yourself for what you are. You are a nice guy. Some lucky girl out there will recognize that also and be drawn to you because of it. Good luck my friend.
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Amp
Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.
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