Hi Brokenfrag....I can sooooo relate to what you are saying. I am the same way (except the 'guy' part
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She told me that women don't want a nice guy. They want a guy who can be nice.
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She is speaking for herself here and probably not the only woman who feels this way but I can tell you with absolute certainty that this varies from one woman to the next and I've never been attracted to a man that wasn't nice...bad boys just scare me and make me uncomfortable.
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She went so far to say that the universe balances everything out. Not in the punish those who are bad or reward those who are good way. It is more that it is ok for her to be bad because I am so good. Maybe she is right.
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hmmmm....ok then. I wish her luck with that thinking...I really believe in the 'what goes around comes around' I've seen it happen too often to not believe it.
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When asked what happened to us, she just says it didn't work out and we decided to separate. I guess that is true, but it isn't the truth.
What is a nice guy to do?
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I am sorry. I am sure she would feel ashamed telling the entire story, but brushing it off like it was a mutual decision, ho-hum we're bored being married now just minimizes your devotion as her husband and I'm sorry to hear she's doing that.
Keep being the nice guy...it's so much easier to be who you are...you probably won't like yourself otherwise. Nothing wrong with getting a little tougher or shrewd...call the bank and demand free checks or you will switch to another bank...take back some power where it makes sense...it can be therapeutic for us nice guys
