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Moonlight · 06-23-2008, 04:37 PM

Thanks for your input.

He still was very emotionally connected and loving while we were sex-less, He said he loved me for who I am and didnt push the weight issue. Ive lost most of the weight, I do respect that he wants me to be in good shape, wouldnt any one? i was also not very happy with myself about the weight and he told me it was more for myself to get confident and feel good about myself since he saw how unhappy i was being a little chubby.

The thing that hurts the most is the internet girl, it is cutting at my emotions, you are right.

I think I am going to give him his space, I know he still loves me, from some interactions and talks we have had, maybe hes not IN love with me, or seeing his options I guess.

I guess Im hoping he will realize what we have is special and that he cant get that with some other girl...maybe if i stay out of his way here in the apartment he will miss me and if not, and he wants to leave me i think Ill feel better with some closure and not all these "what ifs"

I really appreciate your feedback.Thanks.

06-23-2008, 04:37 PM	#3 (permalink)
Moonlight Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 8	Re: New and need help Thanks for your input. He still was very emotionally connected and loving while we were sex-less, He said he loved me for who I am and didnt push the weight issue. Ive lost most of the weight, I do respect that he wants me to be in good shape, wouldnt any one? i was also not very happy with myself about the weight and he told me it was more for myself to get confident and feel good about myself since he saw how unhappy i was being a little chubby. The thing that hurts the most is the internet girl, it is cutting at my emotions, you are right. I think I am going to give him his space, I know he still loves me, from some interactions and talks we have had, maybe hes not IN love with me, or seeing his options I guess. I guess Im hoping he will realize what we have is special and that he cant get that with some other girl...maybe if i stay out of his way here in the apartment he will miss me and if not, and he wants to leave me i think Ill feel better with some closure and not all these "what ifs" I really appreciate your feedback.Thanks.