movin MIL in
We're gonna be moving in a few weeks, to a bigger house, to move my husband's mom in, my family says Im crazy and making a big mistake. I've tried to explain a hundred thousand ways that I dont have the heart to say no, when I know she has no where to go. Ive put my foot down to my husband that she cant tell us what friends we can and cant have over, or that we cant drink, or to tell me how to raise my child. I dont want to feel like Im living at home all over again.
My MIL suffers from bipolar disorder, shes suicidal, COPD, shes on Oxygen, mood swings, but yet, she takes meds for all the things listed. Her and my husband have had their differences in the past, shes up set because we refuse to move my BIL in, but she understands why. I dont want my child in an environment surrounded by drugs and violence.
Am I crazy? Will this be a mistake? My family wont support this, they only bring me down...
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