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bhappy3 · 06-23-2008, 09:33 PM

So I met this guy on this forum. Rest assured, there's nothing going on. He's married, I'm married, we just found some common ground and have been chatting about it since. I have no interest in him romantically, intimately, sexually, nothing.

So here's the deal... he had some mixed emotions about his wife hooking up with a younger guy. At one time he would feel so excited about it, at another, he was a little angry about it. I encouraged him to go one way or the other with it and be happy with his choice. He did and he's reaping the benefits of his wife getting with someone else. He's one of those guys that enjoys that. I think that's super awesome.

Problem is, that intrigues me so much. I have always wanted to be with two men at the same time. My husband knows of my desires and we've tried to set it up, but it's not just going to happen with anyone. So talking to this guy about him giving his wife the best of both worlds is making me jealous!!!

Now don't go judging... come on, be honest... everyone has had thoughts about another person. Do you think as humans we're really supposed to be monogamous?? Don't answer that out loud. We are animals after all. The whole idea of polyamory intrigues me as well.

I have no one on the side and no one with my sights on either. But my husband is more the "traditional" one woman one man thing. I feel like I'm missing out on something in my life. This other guy is so understanding about his wife being with someone else, shoot, she even compares the other guy to him and he's fine with that!! I just want to have sex with someone else. I don't want to forge a relationship and leave my man, I just want sex!! He's had sex with another woman and did he fall in love with her?? No. I'm just a little jealous and wish my husband could offer me the same or close to the same. I can't even manage to muster the threesome I've always wanted, and to think seriously about it is incredibly depressing.

I just want some open minded thoughts. Please, no religious stuff, I'm not into that.

06-23-2008, 09:33 PM	#1 (permalink)
bhappy3 Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 157	You'll need an open mind for this one... So I met this guy on this forum. Rest assured, there's nothing going on. He's married, I'm married, we just found some common ground and have been chatting about it since. I have no interest in him romantically, intimately, sexually, nothing. So here's the deal... he had some mixed emotions about his wife hooking up with a younger guy. At one time he would feel so excited about it, at another, he was a little angry about it. I encouraged him to go one way or the other with it and be happy with his choice. He did and he's reaping the benefits of his wife getting with someone else. He's one of those guys that enjoys that. I think that's super awesome. Problem is, that intrigues me so much. I have always wanted to be with two men at the same time. My husband knows of my desires and we've tried to set it up, but it's not just going to happen with anyone. So talking to this guy about him giving his wife the best of both worlds is making me jealous!!! Now don't go judging... come on, be honest... everyone has had thoughts about another person. Do you think as humans we're really supposed to be monogamous?? Don't answer that out loud. We are animals after all. The whole idea of polyamory intrigues me as well. I have no one on the side and no one with my sights on either. But my husband is more the "traditional" one woman one man thing. I feel like I'm missing out on something in my life. This other guy is so understanding about his wife being with someone else, shoot, she even compares the other guy to him and he's fine with that!! I just want to have sex with someone else. I don't want to forge a relationship and leave my man, I just want sex!! He's had sex with another woman and did he fall in love with her?? No. I'm just a little jealous and wish my husband could offer me the same or close to the same. I can't even manage to muster the threesome I've always wanted, and to think seriously about it is incredibly depressing. I just want some open minded thoughts. Please, no religious stuff, I'm not into that. __________________ :