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TNgirl232 · 11-15-2009, 11:23 PM

Unfortunately it is up to the parents to patrol what their kids find and watch the settings. I mean honestly who gets to decide what is and isn't ok? The government, the FCC, Christian groups? I mean TV is moderated - but only the broadcast channels (abc, cbs, etc.) but not the cable channels. Ever see what they play on movie channels after 10 pm - we can't expect the world to take care of our children - we have to do it.

Kids are introduced to sex younger and younger and not just from the internet. Do you know where she got the words to create her username from - that sounds like something she had potentially picked up from somewhere else before getting on the internet - and that probably made her curious enough to start looking around. She also knew she was where she shouldn't be - thus the hiding it and throwing a fit when she knew she was busted. I would talk to her about how she knew about those words and start building a path to where the base information is coming from AND to talk to her about sex in general and get her to come to you for her answers and not the internet. I'm in no means blaming you - just now that the issue is here, step in and have her direct her questions to you.

11-15-2009, 11:23 PM	#2 (permalink)
TNgirl232 Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 570	Re: Caught my 10 year old watching Porn Unfortunately it is up to the parents to patrol what their kids find and watch the settings. I mean honestly who gets to decide what is and isn't ok? The government, the FCC, Christian groups? I mean TV is moderated - but only the broadcast channels (abc, cbs, etc.) but not the cable channels. Ever see what they play on movie channels after 10 pm - we can't expect the world to take care of our children - we have to do it. Kids are introduced to sex younger and younger and not just from the internet. Do you know where she got the words to create her username from - that sounds like something she had potentially picked up from somewhere else before getting on the internet - and that probably made her curious enough to start looking around. She also knew she was where she shouldn't be - thus the hiding it and throwing a fit when she knew she was busted. I would talk to her about how she knew about those words and start building a path to where the base information is coming from AND to talk to her about sex in general and get her to come to you for her answers and not the internet. I'm in no means blaming you - just now that the issue is here, step in and have her direct her questions to you.