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Originally Posted by psychocandy
Funnily enough we had a chat this weekend. We discussed her low sex drive and she has said that as shes got older it seems to get less and less. Like I said before she was always like this to a certain extent.
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You are so lazy. This is code for "you have not found my hot button". She is on her sexual prime. If you don't find her hot button soon, she will cheat on you.
In fact, I think she is already in the middle of an affair.
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Anyway, she said she'd try harder for me but, she said it'd be OK for me to sleep with someone else like a prostitute or go to swinging websites as long as it was just for physical means
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Only a woman who is having an affair would say this.
This is where men like you always get tripped up by their own fallible logic.
The logic goes like this:
1)She obviously has a low libido because she seldom wants sex with me.
2)Therefore she would never cheat.
Wrong! - On both counts.
Think about it, someone who is bashful about sex would not even like to use the word prostitute, unless it's with a face that looks like it's just sucked on a lemon. But here we have her suggesting you go to one. That does not fit the profile. It's like saying - I'm so disinterested in having sex with you, thatg I don't mind if you expose me(or yourself) to STDs.
Clearly what she is hoping, is that someone else will take up the mantle, so that she can stop having sex with you altogether. The only other possibility is that she is turned on at the thought of you going with other women - but that's most unlikely.