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I would still try and forgive her and try and save our marriage if I felt she really wanted to.
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This is the very thing she is counting on. Quite simply, she doesn't have to pull the plug ... she's has demonstrated no remorse or hesitation making a mockery of your marriage. Further, she does not believe that you will end it as long as she continues to lie to you that she wants to change things.
You need a nuclear option and you need her to understand that you will use it. She doesn't want you. She wants the comfort of a safety net while she pursues another option.