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Originally Posted by mommy2
How young is your son? Could her hormones still be out of whack from her pregnancy? Can something else be bothering her? Is something really stressing her out? Remember sex is very emotional and mental for woman. If other things are bothering us, that will consume us and push sex to last on our list. Do you help with your son? Does she feel overwhelmed? Could there be any resentment?
Just throwing out ideas.
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Son is 6 years old so its a while since being pregnant.
I still think the low sex drive to begin with is the base from this all though with other contributing factors such as:-
1. We've been through a bad patch about a year or so ago which obviouslt didnt help but we're MUCH better now.
2. Wife has suffered depression for about a year. Also, takes meds which affect sex drive.
3. Wife has also had some sort of virus for a few months now. Been back and fore doctors/hospital for a few months off works etc.
3. I've suffered with depression for about 12 years. Sometimes I guess I'm hard to put up with.
4. She always seems tired. Working part-time and looking after a child seems to wear her out. (Unfortunately, we need the income).
5. Yes, I have put on weight and have become somewhat complacement maybe. THIS IS MY FAULT. Some of you who remember my posts will know about this - I have lost 40lbs in the last year though.