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Old 06-24-2008, 11:16 AM   #8 (permalink)
swedish
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Default Re: Nice guys do finish last.

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Originally Posted by Amplexor View Post
Also there is no conflict between being a good guy and having confidence at the same time.
I read the article Deejo posted and can agree to some extent (thinking back to my dating days) that when you first meet someone, if they seem overly attentive (you are my world) it can tend to make you feel smothered, or too much too soon. It puts a lot of pressure on the other party if they feel they are solely responsible for this person's happiness.

I think Amp summed it up really well. A nice, confident guy is the best of both worlds in a long-term relationship....IMHO
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