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I saw that article front-page on Yahoo the other day and read it too. I thought it reflected one of those unvarnished little truths about male-female relationships we rarely admit.

One of the main points I read from it, though, is that independence, self-esteem and self-confidence are attractive traits in anybody whereas their opposites traits (whatever thay may be called) are definitely detractants - especially to many women.

I would strongly recommend spending time with a counselor to work on getting your confidence, self-esteem and a strong sense of independence back up. This situation has got to have been a terrible blow.

You can still be a nice, sensitive, caring and loving person and also be self-confident and strongly independent.