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Amplexor · 06-24-2008, 01:40 PM

You and your husband are missing in your communications. That can be hard to recover and is probably one of the most common problems among couples. If you are resistant to making any comment to him out of fear of being wrong you are withdrawing from the relationship. Withdrawal will only make things worse for you both. Begin a conversation with him at an opportune time to relate your feelings and how it hurts you. That he doesn’t understand your point is not uncommon, that whole Venus and Mars thing. But he does need to understand that ending every discussion feeling you are wrong is hurting you. It is possible he does this consciously or subconsciously but he needs to respect your opinion. You are not bad in this situation, just not understood. Look for help on ways to increase communications between you and you can get by this issue. Good luck.

06-24-2008, 01:40 PM	#2 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 682	Re: Am I really that bad? You and your husband are missing in your communications. That can be hard to recover and is probably one of the most common problems among couples. If you are resistant to making any comment to him out of fear of being wrong you are withdrawing from the relationship. Withdrawal will only make things worse for you both. Begin a conversation with him at an opportune time to relate your feelings and how it hurts you. That he doesn’t understand your point is not uncommon, that whole Venus and Mars thing. But he does need to understand that ending every discussion feeling you are wrong is hurting you. It is possible he does this consciously or subconsciously but he needs to respect your opinion. You are not bad in this situation, just not understood. Look for help on ways to increase communications between you and you can get by this issue. Good luck. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.