Re: Trust, Confusion.
k just my opinion but..... I had a similar situation when I started dating my husband. I went to visit family out east and he took his Ex out to the bar with our friends! Well she had to be gone, no chance to keep in touch as friends at all. Next we set down rules about us, mainly 'if you want to be with someone else, tell me first. Alot less hurt that way in the end. Then we sat down and got childish. By that I mean we tore her apart for our own benifit! It made him realize why she was an Ex and why I wasn't. Also it made me feel better to hear him say bad stuff about her. We're on 11 years now and don't have that fear of cheating hovering over us. We do have issues..but that's one less.
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