Re: Grass not always greener...
Correct dobo! This is my dilemma. There is no easy fix for this one as someone is inevitably going to get hurt. The OW definitely has made it clear that she is not going back to her husband and we have purchased this house together. I don't want to leave her high and dry (although I did that very thing to my wife). My wife is currently renting the house we had from her dad so her situation is a little more manageable financially. The OW has totally turned her life upside down (and her 2 kids) just to be with me. I'm not looking for sympathy because I certainly don't deserve it. I'm simply saying that this thing is such a mess right now that I just want to do the right thing and not make another impulsive or selfish decision that I think will work out for my benefit. I have hurt too many people at this point and I think it is imperative for me to seek God concerning how to proceed. I hope & pray that a year from now I'll be on this site sharing my testimony of how God worked things out for everyone involved. I'm sure it will come with a hefty price to pay on my part. Thanks for your response dobo. Be Blessed!
Last edited by ainezsvulnod519; 11-17-2009 at 01:57 PM.
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