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Originally Posted by LostandAlone
Hello ladies,
I am hoping for a female view on what is most important from a husband in a marriage. Now I know the ideal answer will be both but consider the situation and how you would feel if you were in this position (no pun intended  )
If your husband was extremely affectionate and liked to cuddle with you every night before going to sleep but did not have a high sex drive, rarely initiated sex but almost never turned you down when you wanted / needed it, would that keep you satisfied as a wife and as a woman? Or would the lack of initiation be a big problem because of how it made you feel as a woman, like your husband didn't want you sexually? Also to specify, the cause of the low sex drive was proven to be medical.
I appreciate your input  |
As long as my husband had communicated this to me and also made an attempt to initiate sex once in a while I would be fine with it. But I can see where at may be a problem for women that arent very outgoing or initiators to begin with. All women are not the same and some are old fashioned with wanting the man to initiate. I definatley think it is something that could be worked on though as long as both partners made the effort and talked about it =)