Re: I screwed things up
Well, if I read between the lines correctly, while what you did certainly destroyed the trust you had with your wife, it shouldn't be something you can't recover from, and possibly even create a stronger relationship from. I would highly recommend you swing by your local Borders or B&N as they have a bunch of books to help, and you will get some good advice here, if that is your wish, but if you feel your marriage is in doubt in any way and your wife is hurt enough to consider leaving you, you really need to offer to see a professional counselor with your wife. And if that is the case, saying you don't have the time is not an excuse. If you marriage is in trouble then you find the time, otherwise you're basically admitting your work/schedule is more important to you than your marriage, and I sincerely hope that is not the case. As a general rule, I believe the people that come looking for advice already have the priorities in the proper place.
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