krew26

Hello everyone,

Me and my wife have been fighting way to much due to possible controlling issues. Her father is a jerk and has always treated her and her mom like dirt and kept my wife sheltered. before we began dating she suffered through a major depression and panic attacks due to an ex boyfriend that always put med school in-front of her. We are now married it has been four months now and every time i ask her what's wrong or what she was doing at work, or even ask her what she was talking to her mother about her answers are always the same very nothing. Now i understand that it may be personal and she doesn't want to tell me, but I'm talking about stupid conversations like what she had for lunch for example. She says I'm like a cop and always want to be nosy she has admitted that she has more control of her self and it gets to her head since now her father is not telling her what to do. when we first got married i always helped her with the stupidest things and she would get offended for example going to the car and getting something for her so she would have to do it she flips out that she could do things for her self I am only trying to be sweat. Is it wrong of me wanting to be helpful and involved in her life? Why is it always a problem when i ask her something? We have to get into a fight for her to answer me. Is this wrong? Should i but out and not care? It doesn't help either that i get aggravated and upset when she's one worded with me either but i have hit a wall and don't know what to do! It's only been 4 months since we have been married!! Please help me!!!