alone in love

Sometimes I wonder if some of the people on here are related to my husband. My husband treats me the way you treated your wife - except I never had an affair. She broke your trust. I never had any trust to begin with. I am beginning to see how huge the trust issue is. She didn't want to work it out. She wasn't begging for your trust. She wanted her freedom, she didn't want to have to prove herself to you, and yet she still wants the security that you offer. You did the right thing. If she wants the marriage, then she needs to step up. If she doesn't, then she would most likely cheat again.