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Thewife · 06-25-2008, 09:09 AM

You seem to be somewhat like my husband. He doesnt initiate sex often and SOMETIMES turn me down if I initiate. We had reasonably good sex life before we had kids but it has been worst since kids. It affected me a lot, I felt less attractive and started wondering why? I also suspect that my husband is suffering from low sex drive lately. He had so far never hint me anything (he is the kind who feels a man should never have this problem)

For me, whats important is to have all my husband's love, lots of cuddles and pillow talks and of course sex whenever possible. If he communicates his problem, I will be more than happy to enjoy sex only when he is able to. So Yes I will be satisfied with a extremely affectionate husband even if he cant give me sex often.

06-25-2008, 09:09 AM	#3 (permalink)
Thewife Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 74	Re: What is important to you? You seem to be somewhat like my husband. He doesnt initiate sex often and SOMETIMES turn me down if I initiate. We had reasonably good sex life before we had kids but it has been worst since kids. It affected me a lot, I felt less attractive and started wondering why? I also suspect that my husband is suffering from low sex drive lately. He had so far never hint me anything (he is the kind who feels a man should never have this problem) For me, whats important is to have all my husband's love, lots of cuddles and pillow talks and of course sex whenever possible. If he communicates his problem, I will be more than happy to enjoy sex only when he is able to. So Yes I will be satisfied with a extremely affectionate husband even if he cant give me sex often. Last edited by Thewife; 06-25-2008 at 09:12 AM.