Re: Patience during an EA
This is so hard....I am convinced that no matter how I put it or how much anyone tells her, my only choice is to let it go on and hope it ends. She is so defiant when it comes to this.
I wish I could just work on myself and give her space to work her own problems out.....but I can't keep it up because she is sleeping in the spare bedroom and continues to talk to him. The more I push the farther away she becomes.
Is it really possible to just wait and hope? Or by letting it go on do I give her the best of both worlds? I guess that being that they are so far away it will fade but the waiting is killing me....
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