lovelyl

Yes, we have discussed it and we are currently going through counseling. I didn't want to go into details as to when he had the affair. To me it's bad either way, if it was done during the engagement or after the marriage. He knows that if it does happen again, that he will be taking the chance of loosing me for good. I don't take cheating lightly at all. I believe with the punishment of GOD and the church he may have learned a lesson. It will be a long road ahead of us to build trust, and I don't know if it will ever be the same. I gave him the opportunity to tell me everything that I need to know,because if anything ever comes out again, that's it I will file for divorce. I will have to start thinking about myself.