slickplant35

I have always been the one in this relationship to run the show and have to actually stand behind him and push push push. I feel tired and when the going gets tough he never takes a stand. I am just tired of him venting to me and then god forbid I say one word he's flies off the handle. His childhood I think has a lot to do with his communication skills and I just can't deal with it anymore. I feel like he is my child and constantly depends on me for everything but will never admit how much he depends on me. I am always wrong no matter what we fight about the tables are turned to be my fault. I just can't understand how someone can be so clueless and blind to my needs. I know this will sound silly but in the morning I always get up and make coffee and I tell him coffee is ready come and spend a few minutes with me before work and he can't even do that. We have no life together, he never wants to go anywhere but the race track, he races cars. I have had it, but very scared to venture out on my own. In my heart I know he will not change and I don't want to settle the rest of my life. I am so scared.