| | Re: Hope to spread the word about making your woman happy...
That is why I posted this info here,in hope it really helps someone to better understand that ladies do enjoy sex and they do orgasm and that they deserve it.
I am honestly a bit ticked of at society as a whole,especially here in the USA,in regards to making women a mystery in the orgasm department.
In all my "research" (LOL-Millania007 you know what I mean) and by that I mean reading loads of Porn and Sex books and studying the female anatomy,I knew at probably around the age of 14, women claimed to have orgasm's.The problem I had,I honestly did not see the results.If you watched the adult version of the video above you know exactly what I mean.When a man "cums",the results are readily apparent.It can be quite.....messy.
The lady in the video,has a REAL orgasm.If looked at close,you can see the "results" of this.
I always had a over abundance of fear that any woman I was with would "Fake it".I did not want this.This fear of a woman's ability to fake it,because the VISUAL results was not readily apparent.Led me to falsely believe women actually did not "enjoy" sex but rather just accommodated the male.
I was really blind.
This is why I blame society as a whole for this injustice.If women were held to the same esteem/standard as men,and the details were as readily available on how to please a woman as say there were in giving oral to a male,then more Boys would become Men that were more in tune with how to pleasure a Lady and maybe,just maybe the divorce rate would be lower,cheating would be less prevalent and women would have smiles on their faces instead of frowns over their relationships.Alot of times I cannot help but wonder if the reason men are clueless as to why the relationship is falling apart is due to the lack of orgasm's for the woman....this would build up major resentment in her for the male,which leads to other bad feelings and then the whole thing cascades.
Now if you read anything I have posted in other threads,you know I am a Christian.
Yes I have what some would call "Hang ups".
One is the guilt of Porn.One was the belief ladies did not "enjoy" sex,when in fact this is a society enforced idea.Women are to be prim and proper and know their place.This ideology (spelling?) has been oppressing women for ever.Now I am not bantering women's Lib,this is not the place for that.However I feel women have been sexually oppressed,and the same for the knowledge Men NEED to make their lovers happy.
The more I dwell on it,the more it truly makes sense.I am not trying to be "dirty" or nothing of the sort,but I am beginning to feel this,
Sex is what makes the world go round its not money or food or air.Notice I do not say promiscuous sex
Yes ,I have other women fantasies.Even sometimes feel maybe "left out" by not having sex with many different women.
However,I am a one woman kinda guy.I would not cheat on my Lady.Not in marriage.Sex is a sacred act to me,Marriage the temple of worship.
I have read some of the heart breaking threads here.The more I read the more I wanna bust the knee caps of the cheaters.
Last edited by Tweak; 11-20-2009 at 12:54 PM.
Reason: More to say LOL