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swedish · 11-20-2009, 12:52 PM

It will be very hard for the spark to come back with your husband if he continues to drink and verbally abuse you. Not helping to support the family isn't helping either.

Internet guy is bad all the way around...this may not be clear to you since you are living it, but already uncovering lies and still wanting to be with him tells me you are ready to run right into a situation that will be very much like your current marriage based on what you've said.

If your husband refuses to get help for himself and stop the verbal abuse, I would recommend being on your own with your daughter. Forget the other man...learn to be proud of the hard-working mom you are and let that be enough...until some day you meet someone worthy of you.

11-20-2009, 12:52 PM	#2 (permalink)
swedish Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Near Chicago Posts: 2,522	Re: I'm lost, help me find a way out! It will be very hard for the spark to come back with your husband if he continues to drink and verbally abuse you. Not helping to support the family isn't helping either. Internet guy is bad all the way around...this may not be clear to you since you are living it, but already uncovering lies and still wanting to be with him tells me you are ready to run right into a situation that will be very much like your current marriage based on what you've said. If your husband refuses to get help for himself and stop the verbal abuse, I would recommend being on your own with your daughter. Forget the other man...learn to be proud of the hard-working mom you are and let that be enough...until some day you meet someone worthy of you.