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justean · 06-25-2008, 01:04 PM

he wont change, alot of men dont, because they cant.
but sometimes your changing can change them.
i know your scared.
but when was the last time you when out with a friend or family member.
i think you need to find you again.
dress nice, and go out. even if you dont feel it right in your head to go out. you must still go out. you wil have fun and that can change you.
your hubby wil notice. i think you lack some confidence. but that can come. why dont you go to races with him. if you hate it, find your own hobby. what are your likes and or your daughters. focus on that as a starting point.

06-25-2008, 01:04 PM	#9 (permalink)
justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 639	Re: Where to begin he wont change, alot of men dont, because they cant. but sometimes your changing can change them. i know your scared. but when was the last time you when out with a friend or family member. i think you need to find you again. dress nice, and go out. even if you dont feel it right in your head to go out. you must still go out. you wil have fun and that can change you. your hubby wil notice. i think you lack some confidence. but that can come. why dont you go to races with him. if you hate it, find your own hobby. what are your likes and or your daughters. focus on that as a starting point.