Re: Looking for some advice!
As someone who is dealing with being in your wife's position (read my story on this thread) - I'm sorry for the dilemma you are in. I can't imagine how you feel and hope your marriage ends up stronger in the long run.
As for how to deal with the situation - I would advise you to stay away from this other man, I agree with your wife, only trouble can ensue from this. Have your wife tell her friend to tell the other man to stay away, she's working things out with her husband and if this man persists, she will contact the police.
Your issues are with your wife, not with this stranger who owes you or your marriage nothing, to be frank. Work things out with your wife and heal your marriage, if that is what you so choose. Confronting the other man will only add fuel to the fire, let that flame die out.
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