Re: My god, help.....
A massive stroke of luck- one of her best friends happens to be a marriage councelor, and this older gentleman kindly treated us to a 5 hour chat session last night. Won't go too far into the details now, but he has outlined a very structured way for us to work towards making our marriage not only stable, but also flourishing. It is a very reasonable plan and we both have agreed to it. Unfortunately, part of the plan is no sex for three months (!!!), but that is some we had to agree to to get the plan started.
My wife has dropped the silence routine and I am getting a tidal wave of attention and affection, which she explains she had been holding back and had been turning to anger (reacting to feelings of affection for me with anger, pain etc). I realized she needs to trust me with certain things and she put that trust in my hands.
The problem is the affection is pretty hot and we are going to have a really hard time keeping to the 3 monnth rule. But we gotta do it.
I'll go more into detail later, but wanted to mention this latest development now.
And yes, we agreed granny HAS TO GO. She is finally consistently agreeing with that. OMG. Thats an awesome thing.
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