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33_momma_of4 · 06-25-2008, 01:34 PM

Thank you two so much for your advice. Sometimes I feel like I'm being selfish, and somedays I feel like I need to be more firm with him.

At this point, seriously, I don't know what, if anything will change, even after telling him yesterday to find a new job if he was that unhappy with this one---he is still insisting that he can't work because of his knee. I've told him, he is doing nothing more at work physically than he does at home. So, he's at the doctors right now and something tells me he's asking for stricter restrictions so that he won't have to go back to work. I don't get it. If I could have 8 hours of 'freedom' and no chaos from home AND get paid $40 an hour for it. I'M SO GONE!!!!

I am calling a counselor for us today though! He needs it for whatever depression/feelings he has towards work. I need it for myself, and we need it together! I'm reaching the point of beind done. Because I just can't do this anymore without help!

You guys are awesome! Thanks so much, you've made me feel wonderful just with your words!

06-25-2008, 01:34 PM	#5 (permalink)
33_momma_of4 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: St Louis, MO Posts: 10	Re: Help me! My husband is a baby....... Thank you two so much for your advice. Sometimes I feel like I'm being selfish, and somedays I feel like I need to be more firm with him. At this point, seriously, I don't know what, if anything will change, even after telling him yesterday to find a new job if he was that unhappy with this one---he is still insisting that he can't work because of his knee. I've told him, he is doing nothing more at work physically than he does at home. So, he's at the doctors right now and something tells me he's asking for stricter restrictions so that he won't have to go back to work. I don't get it. If I could have 8 hours of 'freedom' and no chaos from home AND get paid $40 an hour for it. I'M SO GONE!!!! I am calling a counselor for us today though! He needs it for whatever depression/feelings he has towards work. I need it for myself, and we need it together! I'm reaching the point of beind done. Because I just can't do this anymore without help! You guys are awesome! Thanks so much, you've made me feel wonderful just with your words!