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justean · 06-25-2008, 02:42 PM

initiation has to come from both sides. it does not have to be 50/50.
but unfortunately i have a very high sex drive and my hubby turns me down. which gets me really frustrated.
nothing like the real thing.
but when i want it, im not afraid to initiate.
i think sometimes we put barriers up , in case of rejection.
but i think this just depends on your personality, character and how you personally deal with situations.
if i get rejected, i just tell him, ill do all the work, so i get my way.
reading your email, you still seem to have a balance of being affectionate and caring. and although the low drive, u dont turn down sex. what a fab combination.
nobody can have it all.
i think you should try and initiate atleast sometimes. this would make her feel more special, like she is wanted.

06-25-2008, 02:42 PM	#5 (permalink)
justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 734	Re: What is important to you? initiation has to come from both sides. it does not have to be 50/50. but unfortunately i have a very high sex drive and my hubby turns me down. which gets me really frustrated. nothing like the real thing. but when i want it, im not afraid to initiate. i think sometimes we put barriers up , in case of rejection. but i think this just depends on your personality, character and how you personally deal with situations. if i get rejected, i just tell him, ill do all the work, so i get my way. reading your email, you still seem to have a balance of being affectionate and caring. and although the low drive, u dont turn down sex. what a fab combination. nobody can have it all. i think you should try and initiate atleast sometimes. this would make her feel more special, like she is wanted.