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crazybunnie25 · 11-21-2009, 09:07 PM

Like effess said "Work things out with your wife and heal your marriage, if that is what you so choose. Confronting the other man will only add fuel to the fire, let that flame die out."

Granted she didn't tell you who it is, it doesn't matter. HE IS TRASH! That all he should be.

Have you told her friend about this? Has she told her friend? Talk to your wife and tell her that it would make you feel better if she could tell her friend, or atleast let you tell her friend that this guy needs to stop ASAP.

The more you think about it, the more depressed you might get.
The further your wife continues this, the worst it will be.

Rebuild your love for each other, go on mini dates or have a family outing. Anything to stop you from thinking about the events that had happen.
Try starting a family tradition, like one time a week have a special dinner? Or watch funny movies? Craft time. So on and so forth.
Not only will you get time together and be happy, you're children will be happy too :-)

I'm glad that you two are trying your best to get through this. Remember it will take time, and unfortunally there is no calculated time frame on when you will be better.

11-21-2009, 09:07 PM	#4 (permalink)
crazybunnie25 Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 20	Re: Looking for some advice! Like effess said "Work things out with your wife and heal your marriage, if that is what you so choose. Confronting the other man will only add fuel to the fire, let that flame die out." Granted she didn't tell you who it is, it doesn't matter. HE IS TRASH! That all he should be. Have you told her friend about this? Has she told her friend? Talk to your wife and tell her that it would make you feel better if she could tell her friend, or atleast let you tell her friend that this guy needs to stop ASAP. The more you think about it, the more depressed you might get. The further your wife continues this, the worst it will be. Rebuild your love for each other, go on mini dates or have a family outing. Anything to stop you from thinking about the events that had happen. Try starting a family tradition, like one time a week have a special dinner? Or watch funny movies? Craft time. So on and so forth. Not only will you get time together and be happy, you're children will be happy too :-) I'm glad that you two are trying your best to get through this. Remember it will take time, and unfortunally there is no calculated time frame on when you will be better.