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Ash22 · 11-21-2009, 09:41 PM

Something must have happened I agree with CW it may be another man or it may just be something else. You said you just sprang this on you two weeks ago. Did you have any inkling at all? Any indication? Was she more distant? Were you more distant? The whole situation with the children...I have two children and if I were to every marry again I would make sure whoever I married would love those kids as his own...so as yourself stated...you were never really close with them...ok not a crime but did she ever tell you it bothered her? Were there signs that you just chose to ignore?

I am not trying to come across harsh by all means it sounds like this is something that the two of you can work out...but if she wants out, really really really wants out, all you can do is work on you and prove to her that you have changed.

11-21-2009, 09:41 PM	#3 (permalink)
Ash22 Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 367	Re: My soul-mate no longer wants to be married to me. Something must have happened I agree with CW it may be another man or it may just be something else. You said you just sprang this on you two weeks ago. Did you have any inkling at all? Any indication? Was she more distant? Were you more distant? The whole situation with the children...I have two children and if I were to every marry again I would make sure whoever I married would love those kids as his own...so as yourself stated...you were never really close with them...ok not a crime but did she ever tell you it bothered her? Were there signs that you just chose to ignore? I am not trying to come across harsh by all means it sounds like this is something that the two of you can work out...but if she wants out, really really really wants out, all you can do is work on you and prove to her that you have changed.