Thank you everyone for your input, I really appreciate it.
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Originally Posted by justean
i think sometimes we put barriers up , in case of rejection.
but i think this just depends on your personality, character and how you personally deal with situations.
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Besides the medical explanation of low testosterone I do put up barriers that developed a long time ago because of frequent rejection. I try to explain this to my wife but it doesn't get through. I guess it does sound like an excuse.
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reading your email, you still seem to have a balance of being affectionate and caring. and although the low drive, u dont turn down sex. what a fab combination.
nobody can have it all.
i think you should try and initiate atleast sometimes. this would make her feel more special, like she is wanted.
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You hit the nail on the head in saying that I should try to initiate sometimes. I think I felt that it was a "fab combination" too and thought that made it ok not to initiate. Boy was I wrong!
