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Originally Posted by Atholk
If your wife hasn't been home all day, all the mess in the kitchen was made by you. It's her job to clean up someone else's house as their servant. Perhaps she dislikes that feeling when she comes home. Clean the damn kitchen up and stay married.
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Agreed!
She's been working full time too, just as hard as YOU have. It won't kill either of you to share the cooking and the cleanup of the dishes afterwards. Instead of snarking about it, just get it done and then you can both sit down and relax together for the first time that day. It takes half the time to do something together.
You'd be doing your child a huge disservice by walking out of this marriage over a couple dishes each evening. A child needs 2 parents in the same house, not being shuffled between houses every 2 days for designated parental time decided by some judge. Grow up a bit here. This is real marriage and it's hard work. And one spouse is always feeling like they're doing 70%. That's normal. The sooner you accept the realities and change your attitude, the sooner things will start to resolve.