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Sven · 11-22-2009, 10:53 PM

There are far better advice-givers on this website than I, but I know how you are hurting and hitting 'refresh' looking for a reply.

A marriage is worth saving. It sounds like you really love him and want to build a life together and that he made one very bad decision that didn't last long (as opposed to a year or more in an affair).

You need time to grieve and he needs time to gain your trust. It's worth it if you love each other and I wish you the best.

Don't expect a miracle. You have every right to be angry and lash out. I need to step back and let the better minds here give advice.

11-22-2009, 10:53 PM	#2 (permalink)
Sven Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 303	Re: he admitted he cheated.. now wut??? There are far better advice-givers on this website than I, but I know how you are hurting and hitting 'refresh' looking for a reply. A marriage is worth saving. It sounds like you really love him and want to build a life together and that he made one very bad decision that didn't last long (as opposed to a year or more in an affair). You need time to grieve and he needs time to gain your trust. It's worth it if you love each other and I wish you the best. Don't expect a miracle. You have every right to be angry and lash out. I need to step back and let the better minds here give advice.