| | Re: It hurts
I am a man and I think what he's doing to you in ridiculous. If he was a real man he would have spoken up and told you how he felt. He is 100% responsible for making the decision to cheat on you. Do not make yourself feel guilty that you drove him away. Bull. He could've easily chosen to work on the situation but he took the easy way out. And now it conveniently works out that this decision makes it easier for him to walk out on you.
I'm speaking from experience here.....my wife is doing the same thing your husband is doing. She is in her own fantasy world that life will remain as it was with all of the benefits of old, and she will also get the new man too. I am right there with you Nanook. Be strong. Do not let him fool you into thinking it was your fault he did this. It just isn't.