GAsoccerman

DBJ, thanks for not slamming her with the religious notions, I guess you couldn't help yourself to "correct her"

She is jsut basically thinking out loud and trying to figure out what is going on her mind. She specifically asked not to be bashed, but you did it anyway.



Bhappy, Well I would surely love two women and me....But I would also like to please my wife beyond her wildest dreams. We have discussed it and she has several "rules" that would have to be followed, certain things she does not like. Which would have to be set forth with anyone we were to choose.

My point is to give my wife the wildest craziest nigth of her life, where she would totally let go and just absorb it. Basically just a wild night of ectasy. Now will it ever happen??? doubtful, as I said she is not interested, or at least she says she is not, only she really knows.

I am not a jealous person, I used to be when I was a HS student, I learned to get over it, because it would only drive me crazy in the long run, I learned, I can't worry about "what IF?" I worry about "what is" and deal with it.

I ahve been cheatedd on in the past and that was part of my growth and acceptance.

I can't speak of your husband, only he can, you can only communicate with him your desires. But if he is not into it, I am sure it will be a disaster, he has to be interested.

But I enjoy pleasing my wife, not every guy is like me.