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cody5 · 11-23-2009, 07:53 AM

I noticed your screen name is beni, not fredi. I wonder if that says anything.

2 years and you need the excitement of an affair? You feel guilty but keep going back for more? Fred is your security and ben is your excitement?

Do your husband a favor and tell him about the affair on your way out the door. He sounds like a nice guy. He deserves better. I'm not saying you are a bad person, you're just not good enough for your husband. He sounds like a nice guy. Give him a chance to start over. You owe him that.

And PLEASE. For EVERYBODY involved. DO NOT make the mistake of thinking that having a child will make everything right in the world.

PLEASE!!!

11-23-2009, 07:53 AM	#3 (permalink)
cody5 Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 229	Re: anyone here have an affair like me? I noticed your screen name is beni, not fredi. I wonder if that says anything. 2 years and you need the excitement of an affair? You feel guilty but keep going back for more? Fred is your security and ben is your excitement? Do your husband a favor and tell him about the affair on your way out the door. He sounds like a nice guy. He deserves better. I'm not saying you are a bad person, you're just not good enough for your husband. He sounds like a nice guy. Give him a chance to start over. You owe him that. And PLEASE. For EVERYBODY involved. DO NOT make the mistake of thinking that having a child will make everything right in the world. PLEASE!!!