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proflex97 · 06-26-2008, 04:32 AM

Dude I went down the road you are thinking about and I can tell you right now DO NOT DO IT!!! I got lucky and my affair ended without anyone knowing about it. Still was a LOT of emotional pain when it ended. Which ALL could've been avoided if I would've been open and honesty with my wife years ago.

So now we are working really hard to put things right. I am full of guilt about what I did.

So quit with the hints and just tell her how you feel and what you need. There are books and good sites on how to meet emotional needs that drive all of this. It will take both of you to fix this issue, it is not an issue that is just your or her. It is a combined one that needs to be addressed. She has needs also that you are NOT meeting.

But I cannot stress enough DO NOT have an affair, nothing good comes of it. It is a easy path to go down but one that ends in nothing pain. If you feel that nothing will ever change then leave your wife and kids then start another relationship.

06-26-2008, 04:32 AM	#8 (permalink)
proflex97 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 8	Re: trying to stay faithful Dude I went down the road you are thinking about and I can tell you right now DO NOT DO IT!!! I got lucky and my affair ended without anyone knowing about it. Still was a LOT of emotional pain when it ended. Which ALL could've been avoided if I would've been open and honesty with my wife years ago. So now we are working really hard to put things right. I am full of guilt about what I did. So quit with the hints and just tell her how you feel and what you need. There are books and good sites on how to meet emotional needs that drive all of this. It will take both of you to fix this issue, it is not an issue that is just your or her. It is a combined one that needs to be addressed. She has needs also that you are NOT meeting. But I cannot stress enough DO NOT have an affair, nothing good comes of it. It is a easy path to go down but one that ends in nothing pain. If you feel that nothing will ever change then leave your wife and kids then start another relationship.