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33_momma_of4 · 06-26-2008, 08:18 AM

DATE NIGHTS! Can I stress that enough?!?!!? She needs time away from being "mommy in the sweat pants and baggy shirts too" Trust me. I have four kids!!!

Also, nothing sexier to a woman is a man pitching in with the kids when he don't' have to. Offer to give them a bath and put them to bed while she pampers herself with a bubble bath in the other room. From that point on, relieve her of 'kid' duty for the night. And let her have her time to relax. Who knows....that might lead a passionate time in the bedroom afterwards. She needs to turn off her "mom" sensor every once in awhile. And if she can do that, you allow her to do that......things might get better for you. I know for me, if I were able to relax and not be 'mommy' all the time, I would feel more like a wife. I guarentee you she feels the same way you do. Like she wants passion back, and wants to feel sexy! Believe me, don't think your the only one thinking about an affair. I've had my fair share of thinking along those same lines. But in the end, thats not love. Thats fulfilling a need to be loved, and your wife can do that just fine....just give her the chance!

Good luck!

06-26-2008, 08:18 AM	#9 (permalink)
33_momma_of4 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: St Louis, MO Posts: 10	Re: trying to stay faithful DATE NIGHTS! Can I stress that enough?!?!!? She needs time away from being "mommy in the sweat pants and baggy shirts too" Trust me. I have four kids!!! Also, nothing sexier to a woman is a man pitching in with the kids when he don't' have to. Offer to give them a bath and put them to bed while she pampers herself with a bubble bath in the other room. From that point on, relieve her of 'kid' duty for the night. And let her have her time to relax. Who knows....that might lead a passionate time in the bedroom afterwards. She needs to turn off her "mom" sensor every once in awhile. And if she can do that, you allow her to do that......things might get better for you. I know for me, if I were able to relax and not be 'mommy' all the time, I would feel more like a wife. I guarentee you she feels the same way you do. Like she wants passion back, and wants to feel sexy! Believe me, don't think your the only one thinking about an affair. I've had my fair share of thinking along those same lines. But in the end, thats not love. Thats fulfilling a need to be loved, and your wife can do that just fine....just give her the chance! Good luck!