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Sven · 11-23-2009, 09:35 AM

My wife told me all of the details of her affair. Our marriage counsellor thought it was a bad idea. I'm not sure if I agree - being open is important, but knowing that the other guy did stuff to my wife that I've never done kind of bothers me. Knowing that the guy was in the same bed I sleep in every night bothers me.

I guess there's no easy answer, but don't ever NOT tell your spouse something if she wants to know.

11-23-2009, 09:35 AM	#7 (permalink)
Sven Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 303	Re: struggling on how to make things right My wife told me all of the details of her affair. Our marriage counsellor thought it was a bad idea. I'm not sure if I agree - being open is important, but knowing that the other guy did stuff to my wife that I've never done kind of bothers me. Knowing that the guy was in the same bed I sleep in every night bothers me. I guess there's no easy answer, but don't ever NOT tell your spouse something if she wants to know.