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Originally Posted by Nekko
What does 'dirtier details' mean? You said you didn't cyber. Ok, so it was simply a talk about sexual preferences and such between two adults? Your guilty about what exactly? That you like her a lot and let her know your personality by talking to her about some private matters?
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The big conversation that has been really bothering me was us talking by IM about her first experience with a "toy". Nothing came of it, and it never came up again, but definitely, undoubtedly inappropriate. Some other dirt too, not of that nature, but just comments that were made and what not. Again, it doesn't change the major picture, but just adds some color to it.
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Originally Posted by Nekko
As for the last post, it all depends on the kind of people you two are. I wouldn't lie about a single detail to my husband if asked, regardless how painfull. But i'd also not hurry in answering uncomfy questions without being asked, specially if they don't change anything. And that's about it. As for the guilt, you'll have to live with it. If that's the only thing that's forcing you to reveal all the details (to feel better yourself) then, be a man and suck it up.
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I've wondered that myself, about what is my true motivation - to alleviate myself of the guilt, or for her to forgive me about everything. And I would agree, I have to man up and deal with it, which I've been doing.