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Old 11-23-2009, 11:52 AM   #6 (permalink)
Lostandconfused
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Default Re: what is classified as cheating?

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Originally Posted by Nanook View Post
It is not my choice to seperate, he wants to. But he still thinks he did not cheat. He says he loves this lady.
Thanks, at least I do not think I am mad in thinking He has cheated, and it is classifeied as cheating.
Thanks
Nanook, Of course you are right. It was/is cheating. He gave to someone else what he "vowed" to give only to you. That IS cheating. Wedding vows do not only pertain to the physical aspects of a marriage. The vows include, among other things, emotional attachment and desires that are specific to a romantic/spousal love.

He knows this. He's just trying to convince himself, and you, that he's innocent. He is not innocent.

I'm sorry this is happening to you.

Just my $0.02.
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