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Deejo · 11-23-2009, 11:55 AM

Well ... you can certainly tell him that he has the mindset of a cheater. Lying, denial, minimizing, and blame-shifting are all classic behaviors.

It's simple. If you have an emotional investment in another person that you conceal from, and value over your existing partner - you're cheating.

Cheating is not the sum of a physical act, like intercourse. It is the sum of behaviors that a cheater uses to distance themselves from, and betray their partners.

Even simpler, you don't start a new relationship before ending the one that you are currently in.

11-23-2009, 11:55 AM	#7 (permalink)
Deejo Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: MA Posts: 926	Re: what is classified as cheating? Well ... you can certainly tell him that he has the mindset of a cheater. Lying, denial, minimizing, and blame-shifting are all classic behaviors. It's simple. If you have an emotional investment in another person that you conceal from, and value over your existing partner - you're cheating. Cheating is not the sum of a physical act, like intercourse. It is the sum of behaviors that a cheater uses to distance themselves from, and betray their partners. Even simpler, you don't start a new relationship before ending the one that you are currently in.