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Deejo · 11-23-2009, 12:10 PM

If by confronting her your hope would be to find some 'truth', it probably wouldn't happen. If he has actually broken off the relationship, and she was invested in him - then odds are she isn't going to feel much like talking. You need to remember, regardless of the facts of your marriage - all she knows about you is whatever he told her and it probably wasn't flattering.

The long and short, you won't feel any better for confronting her, and if reconciliation is your goal, such an action will likely make things worse for both you and your husband, not better.

11-23-2009, 12:10 PM	#7 (permalink)
Deejo Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: MA Posts: 924	Re: Is it good or bad to confront the other woman? If by confronting her your hope would be to find some 'truth', it probably wouldn't happen. If he has actually broken off the relationship, and she was invested in him - then odds are she isn't going to feel much like talking. You need to remember, regardless of the facts of your marriage - all she knows about you is whatever he told her and it probably wasn't flattering. The long and short, you won't feel any better for confronting her, and if reconciliation is your goal, such an action will likely make things worse for both you and your husband, not better.