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Originally Posted by Initfortheduration
No she doesn't get to stay friends. Would you let a guy who was about to have sex with your wife, be her friend. Unless you stop this (that means no contact) they will have sex. Or one day she will come to you and say, "Gee honey I love you but I'm not in love with you". Or, " I need to take a break and find out where this is going". You had better find the sand to stop this or she will cheat on you again. And yes kissing is cheating. She is having an emotional affair as well.
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No I wouldn't let a guy stay friends with her or even see her for that matter. I understand where you are coming from on this, I have told her the same thing, what if the positions had switched, she said she doesn't know what she would do. It's just harder because I don't want her to be unhappy, I am a pushover like this, but I also will not be walked all over, there is a limit, and I think she is reaching it because of asking this of me, to let her still be friends and then not tell anyone in the town. I don't know, I do agree with you though, I think it could happen again.