mrsbroken

I think it's up to the person to know if they should talk to the OW. Me I did call the OW to see what she would tell me and at first she said they were just friends. Yea right. I didn't believe anything she said but it made me feel better letting her know that me and hubby were going to work on our marriage and she was to stay out of it. For the first month after I found out about the EA I would send her a e-mail anytime I was mad and sent it to her. She didn't like it but it made me feel better letting her know how I felt about her and my hubby. After awhile I just stop thinking about it and the angery went away. Me and hubby are doing better now as long as her name is never said in our house. So it depends on you if you think it is right thing to do