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spiderweb23 · 11-23-2009, 01:20 PM

cody5....Thanks for the advice, I think I know what you are saying and yes I have seen that show before, and I understand that these girls can do this but still be straight. The other girl has a boyfriend, and I have known her a long time and seen her with all types of guys. I don't think she is a lesbian per-say, but what they did together, how else do you take it. I appreciate your writings, and I do agree it is less hard then "marrying me in a lie..." But of course it still hurts. The only thing is, how do I get back into the groove of things for her right away, I can barely look at her at times, and this will probably push her away even more.

11-23-2009, 01:20 PM	#7 (permalink)
spiderweb23 Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 7	Re: Wife had an affair with her best friend "girl". What do I do? cody5....Thanks for the advice, I think I know what you are saying and yes I have seen that show before, and I understand that these girls can do this but still be straight. The other girl has a boyfriend, and I have known her a long time and seen her with all types of guys. I don't think she is a lesbian per-say, but what they did together, how else do you take it. I appreciate your writings, and I do agree it is less hard then "marrying me in a lie..." But of course it still hurts. The only thing is, how do I get back into the groove of things for her right away, I can barely look at her at times, and this will probably push her away even more.