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LuvMyH · 11-23-2009, 03:34 PM

My H and I celebrated our tenth anniversary in July. Since March, we've been happily rebuilding our marriage after infidelity on his part and neglect on mine. I won't bore you with all the details- they're similar to a lot of the situations here. What seems to make mine unique is that we have no children.(Not by choice) I read a lot of posts about trying to save marriages for the kids. I don't think that's the only reason. I know that in the beginning of all of this, my family and friends wondered why I would stay with my H. It made me feel a little ashamed,at first. So, is it possible that some people open their eyes in the aftermath of an A and realize they truly love their spouse,but convince themselves and others that it's for the sake of the children to save face?
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LuvMyH Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Kansas Posts: 200	Childless marriages worth saving,too? My H and I celebrated our tenth anniversary in July. Since March, we've been happily rebuilding our marriage after infidelity on his part and neglect on mine. I won't bore you with all the details- they're similar to a lot of the situations here. What seems to make mine unique is that we have no children.(Not by choice) I read a lot of posts about trying to save marriages for the kids. I don't think that's the only reason. I know that in the beginning of all of this, my family and friends wondered why I would stay with my H. It made me feel a little ashamed,at first. So, is it possible that some people open their eyes in the aftermath of an A and realize they truly love their spouse,but convince themselves and others that it's for the sake of the children to save face? Posted via Mobile Device